I don't understand it at all, its crazy how an average male like me 22M in decent shape, stable job (im an engineer) is having some much trouble with.
I think dating is hard enough as it is, the fact it's online makes it even harder because of the impersonality of it. The best thing you can.
Hey guys, just for context I'm a 29 male who's had semi-success on hinge. Long story short, all my friends have found their partners (now wives) on dating.
Online dating is tough, no matter who you are. People are burnt out, overwhelmed, broken and fed up. People have fallen out of love with online.
It’s like a 180 degree difference, but it affects both genders. Women have SO many matches with men, it’s overwhelming. When you are getting 100+ matches.
The overwhelming abuse and overt sexual harassment have driven women off the apps in droves. Better to sign up for xyz hobby, create local.
Is it just having too much options? paradox of choice? End up not choosing anyone among the manny options you have?
the men you end up choosing play.
its a numbers game. Be prepared to swipe a lot, get few matches, even fewer conversations, and work at things which may go nowhere. get some.
Everyone I know who has or is using online dating is exhausted by it. Dropped communications, difficulty forming connections and ghosting.
We're flooded yes but 75% of my matches are garbage. Low effort photos, idiotic bios, dont even bother to read your bio when they match with you.
So from a female perspective, online dating isn’t really challenging for me. I will get consistent matches (although some never even respond to me),.
I found this fun educational Tinder challenge video in which a woman had to create a male profile and land two dates within a week.
Just curious (I’m a guy and honestly struggling on dating apps)
Women get a lot of likes right? And you can get infinite amount of matches and you.